Possible life at every moment

The people around you play a significant role in shaping who you become. I strive to become happy in whatever I do.I see happiness as the path towards living my best life .I am quite lucky to have friends/ colleagues to treasure journey together through my upside down although sometimes they just sick of listening to my never ending single-life story because it's just "stressful" and "taking things too hard".  I can look at how strong I became from dealing with a lot of situations that other people are never faced with. I can find the good in the bad and that makes the present a much happier, liveable place.. 

Live in the moment!! So last Friday, we had this fitting session at Najjah boutique in Kota Damansara. No- no I didn't  give up my career to become a model. Its just we had this occasion which required us to donning muslimah clothes next week. I am pretty much excited to participate in this event organised by the Bank. Playing with the clothes, colours and of course these 2 pretty ladies/ bond traders made me want to slim down bit to join their xs- small club. LoL. I'll update more on the event next week. Meantime, have an amazing weekend folks.  Till my next post!

Weekend get-away-do

When you're having fun, you're in the moment. You're focused not on what's next, but on what's now. The more fun you're having, the more present you'll be because you're not longing to move on to the next task or event. Making things fun isn't always easy, but having fun makes it easy to stay in the moment. So last weekend, I finally had the chance to run from my weekend routine. A weekend- get- away to Cherating with friends. Long drive and thank god for a good weather. One night filled with laughter and yummy bbq food. The next morning waking up to the sea-view---ahhh its ahhhmazingggg feeling.

I can't wait to get started on this next list of weekend get-away (which cheaper than travelling via plane- and short one.. If you don't have a list of your own, I'd recommend creating one. It doesn't have to be expensive holiday to enjoy the scenery but it should be filled with things that will make you feel happy, productive, and inspired..!

Accept the reality

You have the freedom to make so many choices in your life , good or bad, wise or foolish. You can choose between alternative paths that affect your whole life and those of others. Hence with freedom comes big responsibility. Free will means having the power to make conscious choices. It means being awake at the wheel while you drive through your life.  Like it or not, its all depends on you.Are you free to do what your heart tells you? Are you living your true purpose in life with joy and enthusiasm?

 Some are locked up in their past while some others are tied to an emotional baggage that weighs them down. Like myself, I have been emotionally down and locked myself into my past for very long time which end up breaking my heart again and over again. Somehow,I found myself unable to get past of my negative emotions and move forward in life. I became incapable of facing reality without the veils and illusions of the self-centered ego and this causes so much suffering and stress until one day I realized that everything was written and I have to accept regardless...

Acceptance does not mean giving up or surrendering to life so as to be dragged around or trampled over.Accepting means letting go of the emotional baggage and opening your heart to a richer and broader experience of life. An open heart can give you a full life that an open mind alone cannot.  I remember after my bad break up in 2011 and every new relationships I entered failed, I did ask myself " why is this happening to me again and again. What did I do to deserve this?"...

and so, 

I learned from my failure. I realized I have no control in everything in my life. Failure is good for you to learn because this is only a natural cycle of life.  I regained focus and perspective of my true purpose in life. Of course we don't accept things because our mission in life is not clear and so we mistake simple shortcomings for true loss. For instance, if you have a crush on your friend and you figure out that he/she is in a relationship. Its ok to feel sad but hey, accept the rejection. Failure happens and some things are out of control. You'll find more better person and embrace your life without trying to classify the event or criticize it. Just let it be.. The best is yet to come :)

I know it’s not always easy to accept whatever dire circumstances come your way. I also know that some things are harder to accept than others. I’ve been there many times. But once you let the power of acceptance to work in your life, you will unleash so many positive effects that it’s hard to let it go once it touches your heart.  

Good night xx!

Admitting that I'm HAPPY!

I woke up thinking about the idea of being happy. For me, it used to be a pretty hard thing to admit. Reading through my  journals, I read things like: "I'm so happy right now, but I know that will end soon" or "It's been a good day, which only means a bad one will be coming up." I would have days of happiness but I would always have this "I'm happy, but..." attitude. As I got older I found it was easier to embrace the happiness when it came. I still believed that bad things were just around the corner, but I was so thrilled whenever I experienced any true happiness that I was more than happy to sit with it, to bask in it, and not worry as much about the future. Happy was like this thing that visited me every once and awhile. It was wonderful when it stopped by, but it wasn't there for long. I learned to accept its visits with utter elation and joy (and, also, disbelief most of the time), and I thought that was enough. It is finally May. May is super pack with weddings and last night I attended a wedding filled with laughter and amazing cousins.I love the bond between the cousins and family how they can spice up your wedding! Well, its a long weekend to lay back and sit. Have a fab weekend everyone and do admit that you are happy even deep inside you there are little unhappiness. Enjoy while you still can!