its a dillemma i believed some of you facing thesedays.it took me ages to write hoping this entry will be lesson to learn.but really,how u actually choose between love and career?i would say majority of us are chasing for good life,find opportunities to climb up the ladder and achieve the most highest level.
for most of independent career woman,when opportunities keep knocking at the door,we grab,we commit and we willingly to struggle.what about relationship?love?from the research,people in a relationship tend to be successful due to the fact both are working towards the same goal even their career path differ.
love is love.at certain point career and love walk comparable.if love was trully matter and love is all you need,why bother to juggle with career?pick love over career?it is possible to have both and live a happy and successful life.if your partner willing to work out and compromise,he will be behind the "independent career woman" to support and love you as both compliment each other.
most couple argue over commitment and time to spend with.some men tend to feel insecure and in the end he walk away blaming you.as a result of achieving best in life,you been dumped just because of time?pretty much selfish dont they?how about those who are in long distance relationship which both has own commitment?no one wants to remain single!
in the event of being dumped,an independent career woman shall not fall down and crying over something which is not meant for us.explore what life has to offer,find a guy who ultimately ambitious like you do.think wisely.as much as you love ur career,your partner gotta love his careertoo!both equivalent and healthy relationship can sort your life in perspective.
for some reason,we need love.having both successful career and perfect love provides more meaningful life...a shoulder to cry, a partner to goofy around..the choice is in our hand.couple should have a good discussion and sort it out together.time is not a big issue.there is always something to chase..therefore,compromise and tolerate!
so what is love?it is a million things which i would never letting it go.neither love nor career is tough.to keep the love alive allign together with career,communicate through phone although both are busy even for 2 mins call!absence makes the heart grow fonder.
lastly,for muslim,put a trust in god..he knows whats the best for us;)
have a fab wednesday ladies!