Often times people think that having a positive attitude during a difficult time is a sign that you don't care enough or you're being idealistic.The truth is God is testing you to make you stronger.He wants you to be positive and let Him solve because everything happen for a reason.He won't test you beyond what you can handle.
Honestly, I'm grateful. I'm really grateful for the positive outlook I'm sitting here with. Like a close friend, it's comforting and reassuring and it makes me realize, for the first time, that I have made major changes in my life and that all of the work I've done to create a more positive mindset really is paying off.
As I got older, dealing with heart breaks for numerous of times made me realized that there is only one relationship that should define our self-worth and only source from which to seek ultimate happiness,fulfillment and security,which is relationship with God.
When faced with difficult emotions especially those associated with something beyond your control, positivity and believe Allah is there to assist you is the best way to keep going.Seek help through patience and prayers.
Surah Al Baqarah-144;
“And seek help in patience and prayer…” [al-Baqarah; 45]
Things may seem to be tougher than necessary, for longer than necessary, in places where we don’t want them to be. But know, nothing is without reason and nothing is without cause. God sent us examples in His creation to constantly give us motivational boosts to get us throughout our days. Stay POSITIVE and put trust in HIM.Remember,patient will be rewarded later.Its just the matter of time.InsyaAllah.