Sunday, 8 June 2014

Losing is hard

There’s something amazing about this life. The very same worldly attribute that causes us pain is also what gives us relief: Nothing here lasts. Leaving is hard. Losing is harder. So few days ago I asked the question, ‘why do people have to leave each other?’. The answer took me into some of my life’s deepest realizations and struggles. I always thought after the bad times, come the good times. I thought puzzle pieces of my life that always seemed to be getting lost into the wrong spaces are now fitting together perfectly but it did not last.I 
keep on thinking why??Why is this happening again??

Mum told me " Sometimes Allah takes in order to give. InsyaAllah He will give you something better when He took away something from you". So the question I asked was answered. I realized all these years, I only ran after His creation. I chased for perfect relationship with human and in the end, it leads me to frustration. I struggled and swallowed the pain. I have forgotten life can never be perfect. A human is not meant to be used to benefit yourself. They are meant to be loved and cherished for the sake of Allah SWT. In other words, accept Allah's plan and have faith...If something is destined for you,it will definitely yours..

Thanks Mama for always being there when I'm lost.