When you know (and stay true to) who you are, the words of others carry less weight. You know what matters most to you and you know if you are staying true to your own path and what others say shouldn't make you question who you are. And, when you are true to yourself, you can be more open to others words because you know they will either ring true to you or they will be so inaccurate that you won't even need to think twice about them.
"You can make the most of anything life throws at you—even when it seems like it's cloaked in negativity. Fake it till you make it Kema".That's what Tasha told me for zillionth of time everytime I had my heart broken.She's the first person I run to every time I had a problems. Through ups and down, she saw me crying over my relationship, one to another back then. My one and only roomate( besides Elina).
and today, she is married to a person she never thought that she will.Finally she met her life / travel partner for entire life. Congratulation my dear. You deserved a happy life after all!! I am so happy to see you dancing around during the wedding. So cheerful! Glad Em make the best of you! We love you till jannah :)