When you reach a certain age,when you are no longer considered "young",single and have no commitment,it is very possible to be question "when are you getting married?".At times, I feel like offended with such question.I have reached at one point of "whatever lah",denying the fact age is catching up and forbidding myself to attend cousin's wedding so I won't be caught by aunties,uncles and grand aunties who keen to see me getting married since I am the only child in the family.I consider this as a pressure to me and parents.
There is much talk about marriage.I did mention earlier in my previous post that I would love to settle down when the time comes.I am not scared of commitment but the TIME is not right yet.I am always alarmed by the lengths some people will go to make your life uncomfortable as in I have no effort to find my life partner.Some uncles did call dad to match make with their nephews,friend's son and relatives.Life can be pretty much interesting to have over concerned relatives isn't it?
"If Allah brings you to it,He will bring you through it".All I can do now is only tawakal.Who can question what has written purposely for us?I wouldn't know when because its only a matter of time.I remember when I was at Jabbal Rahmah to pay a visit(place where Adam & Hawa met again).My parents were urging me to doa for my "jodoh".I quickly prayed and saw so many names written at the the "tower".I believed most of people were there to pray for their "jodoh"/ "fate".
But then again,I always believed every little things happened in life has been written and happened with a good reason.In fact, I am so thankful Allah has given me a good life.He took away my sorrow and replaced with happiness.I must say,my life journey was quite tough especially in relationship.I was tested in so many ways."We will meet the worst one before we meet the right one".Therefore,I foresee good things are on its way.In this sense,I guess,doa will do at the moment...
In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is no one (no idol, no person,no grave, no prophet,no imam,no dai,nobody!) worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad(saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers